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      I feel like I’m literally living a nightmare, I feel so down. I work in a job (detail removed by Moderator) and yet I’m the one sitting here writing on this site. I just feel I have nowhere to turn. I took some time off work with stress (detail removed by Moderator) and went for a walk to clear my head- next thing I know I’m (detail removed by Moderator). I just want to feel ok again, I just want him to admit what his done and I just want the investigation to be over so I can move on.
      I used to work with this and although work have been very good with everything his still allowed to work but just not allowed in my area. Everytime the door goes I panick, I haven’t seen him for so long but I often hear him (detail removed by Moderator). Just the sound of his voice makes me want to cry.
      I’m not even sure what I’m writing right now but I just want to know when it starts to get better? Will these memories haunt me forever, how long has it taken for others to “get over” ( i know it never will be fully).
      Again my job is to be there for others and support them (detail removed by Moderator) and I feel like I’ve let myself down by not seeing the warning signs.

    • #116467

      Hey Dreamy77,

      YOU haven’t let anyone down. We all missed the signs or kinda ignored them. Whatever. DV can happen to anyone, and does.

      The panic feeling is a tough one. I hear you on that one. Mine lives on the (detail removed by Moderator) – very close. Been some dark nights I’ll be honest. Prob paranoia but I often think I can hear noises etc.

      Sorry – not much help am I!

      It does/you will get better. Takes time and different things for different people.

      Take care. x*x

    • #116469

      Sorry – welcome!!

    • #116491

      Thank you for your reply anything means a lot right now. Xx

    • #116495

      Hi Dreamy77, I was wondering how you were doing. I sent you a PM too yesterday.

      Do you have some support at the moment? Friend/family/other?

      I’ve struggled with this element but it can/does help. 🙂

      Sending you a virtual hog. X*x

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    • #116623

      Hope your doing ok, I PM’d you, let us know how you are when you can.

      Take care of you.


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