Last one

[Headcook]

So it’s the last one here
I’m sat In an empty house
Feeling very alone.
He came (detail removed by moderator) twisted all that I said
Made a joke of my shielding against me cause I’ve still not said where I’m moving too
He couldn’t understand I had had a hard (detail removed by moderator) living here alone after claiming he had cried that first nite in his new place
Said he can now just walk away if I say something he doesn’t like as he’s not going there with me no more.
Says I only talk of myself and if I visit him I’m to ask how he is how he’s doing not just talk about me

Do I do as he says. ?

Saw partner (detail removed by moderator) wouldn’t even come in house at first ! I went out made polite conversation offered a drink
She gave me a very light embrace when they left barely felt her touch me
I gave the same back
I could do no more
Or could I have. ?
I just feel so d**n empty.

Hc

 

[Lisa]

Hi Headcook

I just wanted to show you some support. It must have been really hard for you to see him again and his partner.

You are doing the right thing by not saying where you are going, it is safer for you if he doesn’t know. I hope it is not too much longer to go until you move.

Take care and please keep posting

Lisa

[Headcook]

I’m in my flat
It was very emotional day and I didn’t sleep well
Was sat on my balcony at 4am watching it get light
I am numb
But I’m here

[iliketea]

That’s good to hear, glad you’re in your new place. You can breathe now. xx

[lover of no contact]

Well done headcook you have done amazing to get away. The early days can be so hard. But soon the void will be filled with positive things. Keep posting and getting as much support as you need. It will get easier and you’ll start to get peace of mind which is priceless and no more walking on eggshells. Take it One Hour at a Time or even One Minute at a Time. Pay urself in the back as it’s so hard to leave …and you did it! Onwards and upwards:)

[lover of no contact]

Typo- Pat urself on the back

[Lisa]

Hi Headcook,

How are you doing today? I hope you have been able to settle into your new home a little more. Be kind to yourself and give yourself time to adjust.

Let us know how you are doing when you can.

Best wishes,

Lisa

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