This topic contains 4 replies, has 4 voices, and was last updated by  Greentea101 2 days, 7 hours ago.

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  • #108306

    I have FINALLY blocked my ex for real now – i spoke to him, i know i shouldn’t have, but now Ive blocked him for good. Hopefully i can learn to move on now. How do you stop loving the person? Im currently learning how to survive without him, today I managed to put clothes on without asking anyone else if it was ok/suitable to wear and wore make up for the first time in (detail removed by moderator)! for me this is big achievement as previously i was told what to wear etc

    I feel sad, but im grieving for the “nice” person i lost within all of this. This forum has really helped! thank you all, I know i will come out this stronger than ever.


  • #108342
     Wants To Help 

    Sometimes you can’t just stop loving someone, but you can learn to live without them.

    Taking back control of your life in your own time, bit by bit is what you are doing. You blocked him when you were ready to, you are wearing clothes of your choice now, getting your mojo back to put your make up on (I’ve not worn any since lock down and I’ve forgotten how to do it!) and come this Saturday you can go out for a drink / meal / coffee – Yay! (unless you live in Leicester 🙁 )

    In time you may love him less, you may stop loving him at all, but you know you’re doing the right thing for you right now. Good on ya!

  • #108346

    Well done @greentea101!! xx

  • #108347

    Great news Greentea101 – well done!
    You’re doing it, you’re getting there- step at a time xx

  • #108363

    Thank you all! Feeling a little stronger everyday 🙂 xx

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