I broke up with my abuser. I did it in writing as I didn’t feel strong enough to face them. Since then, it has been a rollercoaster of blame, guilt-tripping, gaslighting and threats. One question that popped up was why I left and why in this way.
Do you ever tell your abuser that they have been abusive? If so, when and how? We have to stay in touch for the child(ren). Looking into legal advice for that as I don’t trust them to stick to any informal agreements between us.