Love…

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- 28th November 2020 at 9:42 pm #116969
  
  KIP.
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  People who love you don’t want to hurt you
  
  People who hurt you don’t love you
- 28th November 2020 at 11:16 pm #116978
  
  FacingRealityAtLast
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  yup thats wot i think too.
- 28th November 2020 at 11:20 pm #116980
  
  FacingRealityAtLast
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  love means you care how someone feels.
- 29th November 2020 at 6:58 am #116994
  
  KIP.
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  Thinking you love an abuser…. you can’t love someone that doesn’t exist. It’s a manipulation of your feelings.
- 29th November 2020 at 9:39 pm #117063
  
  gettingtired
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  I wish I could get this message in my head but I can’t. I’m so scared of my emotions and being sent over the edge without him. It’s the anxiety of not having him there which feels just as bad as the abusive episodes themselves x
- 29th November 2020 at 10:37 pm #117071
  
  Anonymous
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  Long term desperate loneliness means you’ll overlook that someone hurts you.
- 29th November 2020 at 10:50 pm #117072
  
  Hetty
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  I’ve been thinking about this a lot today. Reading up about trauma bonding has been so helpful in my early days of escaping. I keep thinking about the good old days then have to bring myself back to reality and remind myself that there actually weren’t any x
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