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    • #126522
      Melonballs
      Participant

      Feeling so d****d confused and messed up.

      I’m seeing abuse everywhere, and I mean evwrywhere. (Family, work etc)

      And I know I’m being sucked back in by him, but I haven’t the guts to say no.

      I’m waiting for a call back from a local counselling service to reconcile my past and try to make sense of myself.

      Don’t know what I’m trying to say – having trouble articulating feelings into words!

    • #126529
      Watersprite
      Participant

      Sounds like still really early days and really difficult. Once you really get what has happened to you once you leave I agree you spot abusers everywhere and there are lots of them. Think that settles a bit with time as does everything. Amazing for reaching out for counselling I think the only way to get free is no contact. Look up trauma bonds as well explained everything to me. Stay strong x

    • #126552
      Melonballs
      Participant

      Thank you, lovely!

      Trying to be strong, but we all know how charming , read smarmy 😉, they are when they want something!

      I’m going to chase the counseling service too, if I haven’t heard back by Friday lunchtime .

      I’ve read briefly on trauma bonds, but will look further into it.

      (((Hugs)))

    • #126560
      I love books
      Participant

      Hi.
      I think I know what you mean I can’t articulate very well at moment.
      My brain feels like a washing machine.
      I left my partner very recently and I have lots of plans but can’t seem to implicate them.

    • #126561
      I love books
      Participant

      I feel like I am in shock do you feel like that ?

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