More and more I become aware of the freedom that I have when it comes to deciding what to do with my money. All what I earn is for myself. Nobody can take my money anymore and just give me a monthly allowance from my own hard earned money. That time is over and gone. It is sinking in!
My ex had a pathological hatred of me having any money of my own.
Well, stuff him. I am capable of earning my own and spending it how I please from now on.
He can go and live his depraved life. Mark my words, he will ask to be buried with his bank notes. He can for all I care. I have the greatest gift: being free of that blood sucker.