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    • #8272
      White Rose

      I know you were feeling stressed and pressured and unsettled and I wanted to know you and your little one were ok x*x

    • #8322

      Am so sorry haven’t posted for a while been on a rollercoaster and didn’t want to bore you all with my life !
      But ….. Am still at refuge went nearer home this wkend so that my little girl could have contact and I attended the cp conference but was a split conference, but I had a voice for the first time and it felt good – was told it was lovely to see me smile and for the first time not look scared.
      They have kept her on cp plan as they think he is still controlling me and it’s still too dangerous .
      Was a milertary operation for safety for me to leave refuge for few days .
      I was so glad to get back today as just wanted to feel safe again.
      But I feel I’m doing ok – it’s tough but am hanging in there.
      Have noticed changes in my little one and she she was only within dor few days 😢😢

      Just want to breathe for a while as was still feeling very controlled

      Thank you for your concern
      Hope you are ok too

    • #8327
      White Rose

      Thanks for answering. I was a bit worried!
      Sounds as if you’ve had a bleak few days but pleased you found your voice. I’m glad you and your little one are back safe and that you’re both benefiting from life away from the stress.
      Is your social worker aware of change in your daughter after the contact?
      Keep shining moon!

    • #8331

      Hi WR
      No she isn’t aware as only got her back this arvo – she has been whimpering and crying in her sleep and just didn’t want to let me go – I cuddled her and held her hand earlier .
      she is sooo angry again – just hope I have done the right thing for her !!!
      This is the first time I have been to a meeting and not had repercussions
      Not been hurt inside or out tonight !!!
      Strange !!

    • #8340
      White Rose

      Its not strange not to be hurt it’s normal! Remember that and get used to it – it’s your future ☺x*x

    • #8373

      If I can keep him out my head then I can see a future – so difficult.
      I’ve got my foster dads funeral tomor so have to head back to area … Scary.
      Am slowly getting some emotion back aswell !
      He wants to have her tomor and it’s scary saying NO!
      He knows I will be vulnerable tomorrow so need to keep us both safe xx

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