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I think I’ve severed the last physical tie with him (apart from our child that is!).
He loved cars. We always had a fantastic family car which he drove, and then there was the Cinderella of the family that I drove.
A while ago I traded in my old banger he’d chosen for me years ago a significantly younger model. A make and model I chose in a colour I wanted, I sorted the finance too – he always said I was useless with money forgetting I’d lived half my adult life before he stepped in and took over.
I love it.
It’s also got the added advantage he can no longer recognise my car as I drive round town.
I’ve posted a lot recently about my anxiety and I had more than a few sleepless nights over this, but now I’ve moved forward a bit more and proved my ability to survive without him I’m feeling a lot calmer.
We can do this! It just takes time xx -
Hi White Rose, what an uplifting positive post. My husband is ALWAYS particular in reminding me that he pays for my car so if i leave to make sure i leave the car keys. It’s never bothered me that id b without a car but, its dawned on me recently that id get one on my own merits even tho i have credit issues, everything is surmountable, we just have to believe in ourselves. i have a wee mantra the now,,, ‘not everything sucks’
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