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9th April 2021 at 8:15 pm #124611maddogParticipant
3rd time lucky I guess. He didn’t tell the children and none of his family were present. How low must he stoop?
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9th April 2021 at 8:19 pm #124612maddogParticipant
Poor woman. This isn’t about love. It’s about money and politics which ultimately boils down to power and control.
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10th April 2021 at 1:25 am #124615KIP.Participant
Yep. My ex remarried quickly. That’s what they do. Hooks in the next victim as soon as possible. Good riddance to bad rubbish x
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10th April 2021 at 1:26 am #124616KIP.Participant
3rd time for him too. Not sure about the third time luckily. Definitely not lucky for her.
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10th April 2021 at 11:00 am #124621maddogParticipant
The idiot divorced me, not the children. The children found out through their (detail removed by moderator), poor woman. She knows he abandoned them yet still believes she has some control in the situation. She doesn’t.
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11th April 2021 at 2:19 am #124653maddogParticipant
The children are mini-me’s of him.
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11th April 2021 at 4:54 am #124655KIP.Participant
She’s in the honeymoon phase just like we were. It won’t take long now they’re married for his real self to show. He will be lying to her too. He will see the kids when it’s to his advantage. But just shows where his priorities lie.
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11th April 2021 at 2:12 pm #124682maddogParticipant
I very much doubt that our children would want to see him. They seem to understand that they have no agency in his life and venting their anger against him is a waste of time. It makes it pretty awful for me.
He uses his adult children for fuel when he needs it. It’s sad that one in particular is still fighting to have some kind of relationship with him.
The children are very angry. I’m getting the brunt of it.
If it’s the same woman he’s been dating for a while, she knows what she’s getting into and is ignoring the massive red flags. I wonder if she’s noticed her friends slipping away and she will now be standing up for his appalling behaviour. A marriage of convenience.
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11th April 2021 at 2:37 pm #124684KIP.Participant
My ex new wife was the same. He was detained at her house and she still blamed me. We know what they’re like. Just concentrate on you x
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18th April 2021 at 3:57 pm #124908maddogParticipant
Yes, it’s time to concentrate on me!
My ex made a big mistake by reporting something that didn’t happen to the police. It’s sad that he’s so led by cowardice.
The rest of his extended X*X is problematic. Much as I’d like the children to maintain a relationship, I feel very triggered by their glass-tinted spectacles. It won’t be easy for the children to have an honest relationship if their experience isn’t believed or has to be treated as taboo.
Bad things happen to good people and vice versa. Any family every now and again throws up a horrible person. Is it better to pretend these people don’t exist or didn’t do what they did, or to have a safe place to discuss what has happened? You can’t keep pretending that everything’s rosy in the garden when the gate is blocked by a triffid.
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18th April 2021 at 5:37 pm #124912KIP.Participant
I think it all has to be out in the open but some people refuse to accept the truth and it’s easier to victim blame. All we can do is hold onto the truth and refuse to back down. Showing them they don’t need to accept abuse from anyone x
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