need someone to vent to

[Better-days]

So I recently posted that my family where all going on holiday for an occasion and while they were all looking so forward to it I was dreading it because I know what my partner is like. Well (detail removed by Moderator) and he’s shouted at me and stormed off. I am on high alert and I don’t know how I’m going to survive these next days with him I’m crying and sick with worry. today is going to be tense and awkward and when he feels like this he’s worse. I don’t know how I’m going to get through these next few days

 

 

[Lisa]

Hello Better-days,

I just wanted to offer some support on your post, hoping that things have been okay for you and you are feeling alright this evening.

I hope you are managing to find moments of positivity and continuing to take care of yourself.

Keep posting to let us know how you are doing.

Lisa

[Better-days]

Thanks Lisa for reply it means alot things r ok for now x

[nbumblebee]

Hey better days. Im so sorry they do love to spoil occasions dont they. I know this feeling so very well and have had to so many times.  As hard and as hurtful it is all I could do was to block it out take a big breath and let it wash kver me and try and carry on with my holiday. Try and be with otbers as much as possible as they iften leave us alone when we have others around us so try if you can to surround yourself with them.

Know that this is him ruining it for you he wants you to feel pants so maybe show him you dont. Smile ignore and dont allow him to see how hurt you are. Id go and cry in the shower so he never saw i would not ever give him the satisfaction of knowing how much he hurt me. I know im not much help but know im thinking of you and that you are nit alone. X*x

[Better-days]

Nbumblebee thanks for reply I know u get it, I am just doing really what u said to do, you r definitely of help to me I don’t know where I would have been at times without ur words of strength I will keep youz updated xx

[nbumblebee]

Always here always.

Take care and pm me if you need to. Xxxx

[Better-days]

(detail removed by Moderator) I’m determined more than ever to be out this relationship before end of year. I actually can’t believe I allowed myself to get to this stage he’s just a bully. Disrespectful is an understatement he’s miserable and wants us to be too. I was always so scared of the outcome of leaving as I know that he will do what he can to hurt me and putting my kids at more risk terrified me but now through help of reaching out and gaining strength I have to take the chance because I would rather die than stay with him.

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