I think surviving an abusive relationship can make you stronger and possibly more intuitive. I hope I’m using this for good.
I recently began dating someone who I really like and feel that they like me.
We live opposite ends of the city so we don’t see each other often; however I stayed with him recently and it went really well; apart from one particular day.
(detail removed by moderator) I thought nothing of this and wished him a good day.
he got back fairly late and was a bit dismissive when I asked how his day is. I didn’t want to think much of this to be honest as people are allowed to be private within reason.
I was scrolling (detail removed by moderator) a little while after and was convinced I heard his voice in a story someone had posted that day.
I realised that he may have lied about his day and this has worried me’ seeing friends is perfectly innocent and I don’t see why he wasn’t honest if this was where he really was.
this is a potential red flag to me and o don’t really know how to bring it up. Should I maybe say to him that I value honesty in a relationship and if there is anything recent he’d like to mention?