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    • #173448
      Hollapops-
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      I think surviving an abusive relationship can make you stronger and possibly more intuitive. I hope I’m using this for good.

      I recently began dating someone who I really like and feel that they like me.

      We live opposite ends of the city so we don’t see each other often; however I stayed with him recently and it went really well; apart from one particular day.

      (detail removed by moderator) I thought nothing of this and wished him a good day.

      he got back fairly late and was a bit dismissive when I asked how his day is. I didn’t want to think much of this to be honest as people are allowed to be private within reason.

      I was scrolling (detail removed by moderator) a little while after and was convinced I heard his voice in a story someone had posted that day.

      I realised that he may have lied about his day and this has worried me’ seeing friends is perfectly innocent and I don’t see why he wasn’t honest if this was where he really was.

      this is a potential red flag to me and o don’t really know how to bring it up. Should I maybe say to him that I value honesty in a relationship and if there is anything recent he’d like to mention?

    • #173454
      minimeerkat
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      yes you could say that you valued honesty in a relationship because any reaction to this could then tell you everything you need to know.  it is just quite sad to think that you are even having to stress the importance of this x

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