one inch and they take a mile!

[diymum@1]

so we have an order of no contact including letters and emails. I get a call from school to say hes been to parents evening and left a letter in her jotter. despite writing to the school explaining our fears and the need for separate parents meetings (this is the only avenue he has left) of course hes not going to listen he dosent care if he upsets her. its all about him off course and any loop hole he sees he will take. Im going to make sure the school takes heed they need to. Time to grip the bull by the horns I think xx

[HopeLifeJoy]

You go girl, you’ve got this 💪 prepare well and maybe add support from another organisation to back you up and add weight into your corner, so that the school will listen to you if not out of respect than out of fear of repercussions when not treating your daughters safety with the seriousness it deserves.
Sending you strength 💪💕🌸🌻

[KIP.]

You could add they’re complicit in breaking a court order? Allowing this to happen. They need to take this seriously. He’s also breaking a court order but it will cost you money to challenge so I’d just keep a journal and get someone you trust to read the letter to see if there’s anything threatening. I’m wondering about getting a power of arrest added to your court order so next time he breaks it he can be hauled before a judge?

[fizzylem]

Have they seen a copy of the order DM? I know they’ve not been much supprt at times but they cant go against this hey x

[diymum@1]

ive sent the whole report to them now xx why do i feel shame i know im being silly but its like airing your dirty laundry for all the staff room. i wouldnt feel so bad if i thought the main teachers would understand. However the deputy called and assured me this would not happen again. he put a pencil inside her jotter and when she opened it goes to show he thought it through xx

[diymum@1]

shes actually ok she was feeling anxious at one point but she knows shes safe and he cant come near xx triggering for all but we will all be fine by tomorrow xx he can do nothing and we wont let him into out heads ever again xx

[diymum@1]

thanks ladies xx 🙂

[diymum@1]

all it said was (detail removed by moderator) not daft!!

[fizzylem]

Wow you’ve processed this quickly! Hit with the incoming, did what you needed to do – attended to your daughter – rationale found – peace in the world restored – this could have knocked you both for 6 for days DM – feeling so happy for you – the both of you – fine, strong women! No one messes with my daughter and gets away with it! Lol. This might be the awareness the school needed, I think you’ll have their full support now – fingers crossed – they clearly know they need to take a more active role in protecting her now. Go you x

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