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      Ostrich
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      Ex is still around, he’s getting more brazen considering I have a non mol against him. It was turning up to a pub my friend drinks in and she bumped into him, he was leaving cans by my car, but it’s more intense now he actually beeps when he’s behind my place and when he drives past out the front or he’ll play loud music, I’m waiting to be moved which will hopefully stop this because he won’t know where I am but it’s still the feelings,and the mind games he’s playing, it Hasan affect on me them in turn affects my child I hate living like this in fear and I have an order which he’s already breached but the police don’t have sufficient evidence to charge him….. I’m still not healed from him or to be honest over him I just want to stop these feelings of love towards him but I can’t fully hate him either…

    • #126759
      Watersprite
      Participant

      Keep Reporting every time and keep record it establishes a pattern of events that really helps. I can so relate it’s exhausting and frightening. The move will help you feel safer. Read up on trauma bonds it explained everything to me. Back yourself you doing amazing – you left got a non mol you are taking power back keep going it will get easier – you are sooo much more than an ostrich. Stand tall and strong even though your knees are quaking and keep on reporting to police even tho it feels like it’s never ending. I know how hard it is x*x

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