Pregnant

[SeaView21]

Just when I think I am ready to walk away from my relationship – I find out I am pregnant.

I haven’t told him yet because I know his reaction won’t be great – I know he’ll accuse me of cheating on him. ((detail removed by Moderator) when I told him I felt pregnant – he said it wouldn’t be his)

It is!! It’s just added to my confusion…

[lover of no contact]

Hi SeaView21,

The priority in all of this is you and your baby. First things first is your self-care physical and emotional. You don’t need his toxicity and reactions on top of everything else. If it was me I wouldn’t tell him yet. Give yourself plenty of time without his input to gather as much support around you as possible. His reactions and response will be abusive. He lost any rights to you treating him like you would a normal partner by choosing to abuse you.

Keep posting for support and try the live chat too

 

 

 

[SeaView21]

Thank you.

I did tell him and he’s response was exactly what I thought – He told me to get an abortion – There wasn’t another option. He doesn’t want children.

I have an appointment booked for next week but feel it’s all rushed and I don’t know what I want to do yet. I have a week.. to think.

Thankyou

[lover of no contact]

Hi Seaview1,

Ignore his harsh response. Don’t Put yourself under pressure. You need plenty of support. There will be supports out there it’s just finding them. Put you and your baby first. Do what’s best for you and your baby. Health visitors/midwives from local maternity hospital/unit might give you information on supports. Keep trying to get support in your very difficult situation. Keep posting your thoughts and feelings. We’re all here for you.

[UndertheStarz]

Hi I am pregnant to, facing a future doing it alone due to my situation

I hope you didn’t get pressured into an abortion i have Gone through this myself too so I’d just advise to speak to gp / councillors or even online chat on here for advice. And do not self blame !

You are not alone xx

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