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18th October 2017 at 7:50 pm #48932ConfusedgirlParticipant
So last week I rang women’s aid for advice and to see if there was space in a refuge, I had nowhere else to go, I spoke to a few people and they rang me back saying there was no room etc etc… I told them it’s ok, I’d stay in a hotel, which I did for (detail removed by Moderator) days… then I came back home 🙁
Now today my health visitor has rung saying she wants to come and see my toddler for his (detail removed by Moderator) check… is this a coincidence?? Would women’s aid of notified her of me ringing? I didn’t actually stay there, just rang etc
I’m so so scared, she wants to come in 2 weeks time.. will she bring it up? What if they try and take my boys? I’m so worried about it all xxxx
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19th October 2017 at 9:31 am #48950FreetobethegreatestParticipant
Hey I dont think womens aid would tell the health visitor. Im pretty certain its confidential. Its probably just a routine check up and a coincidence. I understand how worrying it is living like this however. I constantly worry im gonna lose my kids because of him when i havent done anything wrong. Its horrible isnt it.
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19th October 2017 at 10:07 am #48955ConfusedgirlParticipant
Yeh it’s so draining isn’t it..
I stayed in a refuge over (detail removed by Moderator) months ago, and after staying there for (detail removed by Moderator) days I went home.. then my health visitor came to see me the week later and was asking about it 🙁 I thought it was confidential to.. she said she would come back every month to check on us all etc, she came back once and I never heard back off her
This time tho, I never actually went to a refuge. Just rang and they said they didn’t have any room…
I’m so worried and stressed out over it. It’s a awful feeling isn’t it. If she brings it up I’ll have to admit I rang them won’t i?
The constant worry and stress is getting me down now. I feel I can’t even ring them anymore as it’s not confidential 🙁 xxxx
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19th October 2017 at 12:39 pm #48967Confused123Participant
hun
im sure its a standard check, i would use this opportunity to talk to your health visiotr
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