Rant . I want to just move on .

[Jeeves]

Hi all , I left my ex husband (detail removed by moderator) ago and just want to rant. My ex is relentless. He contacts members of my family constantly to have them on side. He is the victim , he lost the love of his life ex. He constantly contacts my family and won’t respect boundaries. He makes people, mainly men in my family feel so sorry for him. I am angry at my family , they should not engage. He slanders my name and says all sorts. I know why he does these things , I just want to rant as I am exhausted and want to move on .

[Lisa]

Hi Jeeves,

Thank you for your post. I’m sorry to hear about your situation. What you described sounds really exhausting- abusive men like to twist situations, to play the victim and its frustrating if members of your family are being drawn into that.

You are right in saying that they shouldn’t be engaging with them- you don’t need to explain or justify yourself to anyone- and you have a right to set boundaries with certain members of your family. You know your situation best, you know what you have been through and endured.

Best Wishes

Lisa

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