hey i am thinking about going into a refugee,I’m bot living with my abuser for the moment ,he was arrested and got told not to show up at the house for (detail removed by Moderator) because the police is investigating my case now.his name is on the tenancy aswell and I’m scared that after (detail removed by Moderator) he will just show up.when I’m outside his friends are always calling him and telling him were I am.the thing is I have 3 children my oldest is a boy and he’s (detail removed by Moderator).now I read on one refugee site that most refugees don’t allow boys over 13 in their houses.its says their are only a few refugees that allow boys my sons age in their houses ,means I must probably travel very far away,which I dont mind I just want to get away from him.the other thing that I’m wondering is how long does it take to get a place in a refugee?