Dear “i’m so sad” i am so glad you are free from abuse and heartache,leaving is very hard to do when you have been made to feel like nothing you feel like you are nothing and can achieve nothing, i have spent a lifetime wanting to leave and now i am elderly regret so much not going when my kids were growing up. they were affected by it so much more than i realised it at the time. now he is sick and old and grumpy and it is even harder to leave. change your life for the better and be your own best friend. love granxxx