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Packing up his stuff this weekend. My niece is helping me. Makes it all feel so final. My heart is breaking:(
I know how you feel but one day you will look back and see it was the best thing that could have happened to you. He’s not your problem anymore and your heart will heal. You will become stronger and wiser. Just take baby steps and remember there is only one person to blame. Abuse always gets worse. You deserve better. Try giving yourself a mantra. I am strong and I will get through this. I am worth much more than him. It’s my right to be safe from abuse.
keep going. I feel this is a healthy sign, no matter how much it hurts
you are a living, breathing human being.
Well done for coming so far
all best
ftc
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I’m glad to hear you have someone helping you Landy,it was a bit overwhelming in your last post. You are doing really well, I so wish I had your strength.💞💞
Thank you, all.
IWMB, I’m not that strong. He got arrested because someone else called the police and his bail conditions stipulate that he can’t contact me.
I think you just have to be ready to do this and I was ready. I just couldn’t go on living that way indefinitely. Like I’ve said on here before, I could cope with the physical abuse. It was the emotional abuse that got me. And there was never any affection to offset it by the end. But I never stoped loving him or wanting him to help him face his demons. He just saw no need to and I’m not sure that he ever will.
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