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    • #11852
      Anonymous
      Inactive

      Even though I have had to move twice to get away from my husband, my mum says I shouldn’t be scared as he is using the legal process to get access to our lo.
      I feel that if I have had to run twice, the chance of him following us if he finds out where we are is highly likely. Am I just being paranoid?

    • #11857
      Falling Skys
      Participant

      Hi Freedoms

      You know your abuser better than anyone, go with your gut feeling.

      They are we

    • #11858
      Falling Skys
      Participant

      Sorry phone went mad..

      Abusers will use anyway to control, and in their eyes they do no wrong.

      I only got hurt recently because I dropped my guard. (nothing serious) But it proves we know them best.

      Stay safe.

      FS xx

    • #11859
      Hopesprings
      Participant

      I suppose it boils down to what you are scared of?

    • #11862
      Anonymous
      Inactive

      Thanks Hope and Falling,
      I think I am afraid that he is going to follow us, find some way to take lo from me, or even turn the people in my life against me. It all sounds so small and petty, but I’ve had to work d**n hard to rebuild myself and my life and it just feels like I might have built on loose scree or sand, rather than a rock.

    • #11863
      Falling Skys
      Participant

      Hi freedoms

      It’s not small or petty, think of the things he can do and make a plan in your head so you can counter act what he may do. It puts you in the power position. Hopefully you won’t ever need it, but if you do instead of panicking you will use it.

      It helps me.

      FS xx

    • #11866
      Hopesprings
      Participant

      Just want to echo the good advice you already have 🙂 good luck xx

    • #11868
      Anonymous
      Inactive

      Thank you everyone

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