He’s now got my son (detail removed by Moderator) saying there. I say no… He’s encouging child to go.. Bribing him… New phone tablet whatever he wants basically…. Child wants to go from school (detail removed by Moderator) and back late (detail removed by Moderator).. I get no say….
That they live with me and see him (detail removed by Moderator) a month for up to (detail removed by Moderator) hours.. And he has never wanted to go.. But he’s been bribed and promised the earth and get a run..
Then he’s breaking a court order. I’d explain to your child that the law has put this in place and it’s not upto his dad to break it. By doing so he’s breaking the law. That if it has to be changed then his dad will have to take it back to court, speak to your local women’s aid or the national domestic abuse helpline. I’m assuming the police will enforce a court order so get some advice about how you use it. Boundaries will always be pushed with an abuser and it’s important you push back.