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      moongazinghedgehog
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      Someone once said to me that

      ‘Sex is love.’

      I felt so sad and so frightened for her. She would not accept my explanation that it is not.

      I hope that our education system is working hard to make sure that all of our children know that it is not.

    • #14180
      LemonPie
      Participant

      Wow that’s a scary statement for someone to believe. I guess it’s up to all of us as parents to teach our children to know the difference between the two.

    • #14219
      shine bright 2
      Participant

      Definitely wasn’t for me. sex was brutality, humiliation, fear and pain

    • #14223
      Millionpieces
      Participant

      Not for me either, I feel like animal, not human being. I’m just an object of sex

    • #14227
      Ayanna
      Participant

      Sex = abuse, pain, fear, disfiguration, disrespect, humiliation, patriarchy.

      Do not marry , do not carry their children!

      We were all educated wrongly!

      We need to look after ourselves, earn our own money, go to the university, have nice holidays, drive fast cars, buy beautiful houses, dress as we want, play loud music, celebrate every day and kick the men on the street.

      • #14411
        LemonPie
        Participant

        You sound like you’ve been through a truly awful time Ayanna. However, all the things you mentioned in your last paragraph, I believe that with the right man you can have them within a happy relationship. There are good men out there xx

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