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Welcome! There is a lot of strength here so you are in a safe space. Well done for posting.
It takes a long time to realise we are being abused and to acknowledge our own feelings of pain. Please continue to post when you are ready.-
Thankyou ,it’s taken me a year to get back to myself having some counselling and realising that i also need direction for Domestic abuse ,what I have been through ,felt like I was made to be the one that was causing all the issues when looking back it wasn’t!Not everyone is perfect I was always Walking on eggshells not knowing what mood he was in , silent treatment, paranoid he thought I was checking up on him throughout the day when only asking if still working. Cancelling plans,not bothered to do anything smoking weed and drinking more ,letting me down, gut feeling somethings not right ,always negative about everyone,addicted to smedia why someone didn’t like his posts.
Supporting him with everything, finances, csa, organising bills ,making sure everything was paid,felt sorry for him would treat him to clothes,no empathy when I was ill he was never there to support , if I had a bad day his was always worse,to have this feeling he was my soulmate and he contacts police to say i’m stalking ,sorry for the rant, just wanting to get an understanding of this behaviour i’ve been trying to educate myself around gaslighting and n********t behaviour still trying to come to the terms it wasn’t me if that makes sense any feedback appreciated
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