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      Minimrs
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      On a daily basis he makes the three eldest do chores. And while he is at work I have to make them do chores. While they are doing the chore he shouts at them if they don’t do it properly. My eldest who is an adult he told me he hates him and he is a dirty lazy s**t. He tells me off if I don’t tell them off when they shout back at him. I feel like a puppet at times. If I don’t tell them off he gets really angry and starts shouting swearing and mimicking my eldest. I feel at a loss. I don’t know what to do anymore. He said today just wait till tomorrow IV got loads of jobs for him so now in worried it’s going to kick off.

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      Eggshells
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      Hi Minimrs. I can feel your heartbreak and that you want to protect your children. What does your gut instinct tell you to do?

    • #107882
      KIP.
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      He’s setting you all up so that he has an excuse to abuse you all and cause chaos. Nothing you all do will be good enough, he will simply change the goal posts. He’s keeps you exhausted so you can’t think straight. Do you have support from women’s aid? He’s driving a wedge between you and your children and he enjoys doing it. Children from abusive homes are far more likely to be abused as an adult, please break that cycle if it’s not too late. Gather a support network and have your abuser removed from the home.

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