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Husband is refusing to sign divorce petition until I soften what I have stated abusive behavior which I expected his denial but he’s told our grown up children ..they have also said if I ever have a relationship withanyone but their father they will have nothing to do with me and one of them Said why should I ever go on to be happy if one of them never has Been I should suffer too ..
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It’s victim blaming of the worst kind. Hold your head high. My ex did the same. Involved my adult child and showed them the details. I backed down and my ex still did not agree. They are liars. Stick to your guns and if he won’t sign then let the court sort him out and ask the court to award costs against him x
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I agree with Kip. It’s definitely victim blaming. Abusers are good at making us think that if we just do xyz and jump through certain hoops then they will stop being abusive and act reasonable. It never works. They always come up with new hoops for us to jump through. Having the courts involved is in your best interest. Stick to your guns. There is nothing soft about abuse so the language used to describe it in court documents shouldn’t be soft either. Also I want you to know you are amazing and brave 💜.
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