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2nd August 2024 at 2:20 pm #170302
LotusPriestess
Participantiv been dealing with two woman from my past im not sure what to do about them, one ladies called (detail removed by Moderator) and she was (detail removed by Moderator) years ago and i dated her for (detail removed by Moderator) years, and she psychically attacks me just so she can feel good and i feel bad, its not nice really what she does, but im not sure how to deal withit anymore, theirs also a ladynamed (detail removed by Moderator) who possess me mentally becaus shes jealous i met her physically, through (detail removed by Moderator), i do regeet meeting her, shes caused me alot of suffering, (detail removed by Moderator) i dated (detail removed by Moderator) years online and (detail removed by Moderator) was just a house mate, i do regre t meeting these ladies, has anyone got any suggestions on how i can let them go emotionaly and psycholgoically thanks for reading i appreciate it.Lotuspriestess
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3rd August 2024 at 9:31 pm #170325
Lisa
Main ModeratorHi LotusPriestess,
Welcome to the forum. This sounds like a lot to be dealing with. It can be difficult and scary to let abusers go, it’s definitely something a lot of women struggle with. Reaching out here for support is a good, solid step to take. The Bloom website has courses focused on recovering from trauma, including abusive relationships, that you might find helpful.
Take care and keep posting,
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4th August 2024 at 10:21 am #170331
Karisqq
ParticipantFor me the most helpful thing is acceptance, although it’s hard as hell. Accept what has happened, accept how you feel, accept that you can’t undo things . When those feelings hit me, I accept them and wait them past patiently, meanwhile I also reach out to ppl I trust, or do Sth I love. Take care of yourself and be kind to yourself are the most important, since you’re the most qualified person to care and love yourself. Professional help like therapy helps too, but it takes time to change your mindset and the way you think. Sending you lots of love x
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