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      Purple bun
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      Hi

      I’m on here following several incidents and after speaking to others for the first time in years have admitted I am a victim of DV. I have spoken off the record to police to see what options I have and also had some advice from solicitor but not sure which direction to take. He is angry and controlling but also has times when he makes sense saying our relationship is nonexistent and should go our own way, although he’s just pushing for a reaction.

      I am so confused. Do I go down the DV route or just try and buy him out of house / sell up and move on to a divorce?

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      Lisa
      Main Moderator

      Hi Purple bun,

      Thank you for your post. I’m sorry to hear about your situation. You mentioned how he is angry and controlling- thats a lot to deal with. Its likely when there are times he is “making sense” this is more about control for him- he wants you to doubt yourself and what is happening.

      Its completely up to you where you go from here. I would suggest contacting your local domestic abuse service for ongoing support with navigating all of your options and what feels best for you.

      Best Wishes

      Lisa

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