This topic contains 4 replies, has 2 voices, and was last updated by  KIP. 1 week, 5 days ago.

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  • #115257
     Icandothis 
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    For not allowing my sons dad access in my home? He knws his son has serious health condition and he lives on the (detail removed by Moderator) were I’ve steps.but every time I offered access at his house he carried on got nasty he always wanted to be in my home….. in the past I’ve allowed him in the house but he got abusive but I feel guilty. X

  • #115259
     KIP. 
    Participant

    Do not feel guilty for protecting you and your son from an abuser x all he was interested in was access to you both to carry on his abuse and well done you for preventing this x don’t carry his guilt for him because he won’t have to x

  • #115260
     KIP. 
    Participant

    You did everything to appease him. What kind of a man refuses his son to visit him. He’s a controlling nasty piece of work and you offered perfectly suitable alternatives. He was never interested in a visit. He wanted to be in your home again where you were trapped and couldn’t leave and he could enjoy himself abusing you. You did the right thing. Don’t let his voice in your head.

  • #115261
     Icandothis 
    Participant

    Thanks kip…. this same man tried to kill his son and me years ago by trying to smash the car into (detail removed by Moderator) police are investigating as yo whether hes brought his sons condition on… he also once said to his son (detail removed by Moderator)…. I’m scared if police do charge him hes going to turn it round in me he says I’m mental and have problems but I can get at least a dozen health professionals who say I’m amazing to my son x

  • #115262
     KIP. 
    Participant

    You are absolutely amazing to your son. Don’t let your ex get in your head. I know my ex caused many health problems for me, my heart, thyroid, digestive, aches and pains in muscles and constant headaches. They all take a toll. Your ex is a pathetic bully who doesn’t deserve to be anywhere near you or your son. Stay strong and remember you know the truth, you lived it 💕

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