Were these red flags?

[Anonymous]

Dating while going through divorce??? . Wanting you to meet there children within first couple of weeks when theyve not even met you themselves??? When you want to end things they immediately send a picture of there kids.. or put them on the phone to you????? Blaming there exes for everything and taking no blame themselves???? Using my past dv history against me… saying i urgently need more help… and how he had seen my marbles rolling down the hill???? Threatening to go to my sons place of work knowing hes special needs??? When i were with him he feared his ex ever finding out as he said his ex were that nasty she would call s.services and have a check done on me….??? He has totally messed with my mind…. i thought i were stronger than that ive ended it but he blamed me x*x

[maddog]

Red flags all round!! Your instinct is right.

[hop]

Yep, I think you’re right. It’s easy for people to say their ex is crazy and he’s probably letting everyone know he’s wracking them up! He’s the one with the problems but he makes you feel like you can’t say anything.

[Iwantmeback]

Absolutely red flags, well done fir recognising and ending it. Very perceptive 💪
IWMB 💞💞

[KIP.]

Yep mind games galore. Blaming everybody else to keep the spotlight off him. Good riddance to bad rubbish. No experience is wasted if we learn from it x

[Anonymous]

Its really knocked me back… he were from a priveleged background… kept saying i needed to reflect on my bad behaviours used my past… wrapped up half a bottle of wine for my b.day and said he didnt know… had his childhood teddy in bed hes nearly 50!!!!! X

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