What should I do?

[pubalina]

My husband neglected me frequently since the inception of my marriage. However, Recently, I have seen true love for me from my husband. He is generally a pious and sober man. I also came from a conservative muslim family. For this reason, I am totally confused what to do while my husband is intriguing me relentlessly to accept his indecent fantasy. I need suggestions for my future life. Please, help me. I will narrate my situation but I really need guideline.

[Bananaboat]

What were the signs of true love? If he’s being nice to get you to do something you don’t feel comfortable with, be wary & very careful. I can’t comment on the cultural or religion aspects, but I’d be worried about why he’s gone from neglecting you to this, it suggests red flags.you also say he’s generally sober, does he drink a lot? Mine does.

[Lisa]

Hi Pubalina

Thank you for your post and welcome to the forum. You did really well to reach out and post on the forum, I hope you feel able to open up more once you are ready.

You’ll find guidance in the Forum Guidelines and FAQ’s.

If you feel like you are in need of some additional support, you could chat to a Women’s Aid worker in confidence via our Live Chat service (open 10am-6pm every day). They won’t tell you what to do, but can discuss your situation and signpost you to other support that’s relevant for you. You can access the chat
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Best wishes,

Lisa
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