What to make of this?

[Indeepindance]

Hi all,

I’m really curious to know something that’s been bugging me today.

Something occurred to me today that I felt I needed opinions on please if anyone has any thoughts?

If a female was in the process of packing her things during an argument to leave her boyfriend’s home, with him now a bit angry and wanting her out as fast as possible even though she’d already decided she wanted to go, then he says, hurry up and get out or I will throw you out, what would go through your mind as that female, or if you had witnessed that? Like what would you think he meant by that comment?

Thanks as always for your time especially whilst you’re going through your own situations.

 

Xxxxx

[Lisa]

Hello Indeepindance,

Thank you for your post, I just wanted to offer some support as it sounds like this question is weighing on you at the moment.

From what you’ve described, this comment could be interpreted as a physical threat. If someone is on the way out of a building and intending to leave, commenting ‘I will throw you out’, sounds like a suggestion of using physical force to remove them from the building.

If this is a threat that has been directed towards you, it would be natural to feel upset or intimidated by this, it’s not okay to threaten someone like this. I hope you are doing okay this evening.

Take care and keep posting,
Lisa

[Indeepindance]

Thanks Lisa, it really has been bothering me a lot as it triggered me to ask/suggest what he was going to do next which shocked him, and he said he would never do that. This has left me feeling so guilty, and realising he’ll never trust me again (meaning no chance to ever try to sort our problems out and rekindle) which I still find devastating.

I think I was seeking to understand why I said it, but realised there had to be a reason or a feeling in that moment. That’s helped a lot, thank you.

Xxxxx

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