Good for you being able to see it for what it was ICDT. Sadly, in the cold light of day we come to see, know and feel just how cold and callous these men can be. Horrid how they see our vulnerabilties as something to try and use against us, to throw at us, attack us with – in an attempt to cast doubt and gain control, taking pleasure from causing hurt – sick isn’t it. Mine was and remains expert in this even today. Good riddance to him chick x