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      Anonymous
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      i have done many posts over the last couple of weeks had lots of fantastic advice and took all of it. i even changed my mind about a date i didn’t go which im glad as i wasn’t 100% so glad of that decision. i now feel guilty and i dont know why. i met a guy through work we hit it off straight away and there was lots of chemistry between us. after the training course he took me for tea we had a great time dropped me off at home have me a big hug we exchanged numbers. he has kept intouch and have arranged to meet again (detail removed by moderator). I’m really looking forward to it. so can anyone please tell me why i feel so guilty i havnt done anything wrong. im not smitten im very cautious my barriers are very secure as i dont know him but he has given me butterflies which i have never had in absolute years…

    • #88004
      HunkyDory
      Participant

      Take your time chik, you’ll know when you’re ready. Maybe that little bleeder trauma bond is hanging around. Tell him to do one and enjoy your date, how exciting 😘💪 xx

    • #88007
      Anonymous
      Inactive

      hi hunkydory i think your so right.. i also think im scared of getting hurt and let down again.. im gonna go i nothing to lose..xx

    • #88009
      KIP.
      Participant

      Your feelings and emotions are still all over the place and very raw. You’re really quite vulnerable especially since everything is so recent. I’ve been where you are with the guilty feelings. I don’t feel anything like that now so be aware of your vulnerability. I’m not advising don’t go, just tread very carefully x

    • #88011
      Anonymous
      Inactive

      i know kip. i took your advice last time and i am so glad that i did as it wasn’t the right time. i really appreciate all the advice given. my emotions are still everywhere 99.9% are anger and hatred now.

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