Why won’t he leave me alone when I’m upset?

[Sad and alone]

I asked a question that I knew would lead to a confrontation. Dreaded asking it but didn’t have a choice. If I do something without running it past him it’ll be wrong and if I ask him it’s wrong as I should know what to say.

I tried ignoring what he was saying. The put downs and insults and basically horrible attitude towards me and I asked him to go away and leave me alone but he wouldn’t and carried on. He is so ugly to me when he acts this way. He wound me up and I flipped and shouted and wanted to throw something but controlled that at least and left the room but he only follows me, chatting his s**t about me and saying look at myself, I’m the one shouting. I can’t get away. I sometimes feel like something bad is going to happen. Like I’m going to do something bad.

[EvenSerpentsShine]

(third party incident removed by Moderator)
Please be careful.
If you feel that this relationship is so bad that you may start reacting in a way that’s out of character, do you think it’s a warning sign that you’d be better off stepping away?

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