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    • #19073

      Opened my curtains looked out the Windows into the garden went into a trance and thought I wondered if he’s thinking about me and kids…… I doubt it very much!!!!! Just thrown and forgot about like we’re nothing x

    • #19107
      Main Moderator

      Hi Betterdays,

      I hope that your day has finished in a more positive way than it started. You are doing so well so please be kind to yourself and give yourself plenty of time to heal.

      Best wishes,


    • #19109

      You aren’t nothing.

      They want us to be and feel like nothing- but you had the strength to ditch him.

      You and your kids are special and important. I hope you are doing all you can to get all the help you need.

      Don’t think his jealousies and selfishness are a reflection on you. He was born as he is- it’s no reflection on you X

    • #19129

      Beleivie me hun wheni say time is a healer, take a deep breath each morning and be greatful u and kids r safe now

    • #19141

      You are doing great.
      As much as I know about the genetic mess that is called man I can tell you that he thinks about you and the kids and he will probably be in disbelief how strong and determined you are and he will be full of self pity.
      Try to focus on your life and the kids and use your energy on that.
      I know this is easier said than done. I hope you have support.
      The hurt will faint with time.

      • #19146

        Thankyou ayanna. Yes I’ve built massive strength I should really be proud x

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