10th March 2021 at 7:17 am #122959red-flowerParticipant
I am posting as I am seeking advice on whether the behaviour of family members would be considered emotional abuse or a different form. Most information related to disability abuse refers to witholding medication or depriving you of care.
Recently, I accidentally expressed my discontent with the past behaviour of relatives which was experienced as a child. [I am omitting the details as it may identify myself.]
In response, my relatives have made many comments about my disability, particularly these relatives have made comments that they should/would try to gave me sectioned under the mental Act or made sarcastic comments suggesting that my biological father should attempt to have me sectioned.
I am not a risk to others or experiencing severe depression. These comments are completely not appropriate for the circumstances. However, my relatives are very aware of my history with a type of Anxiety disorder.
I have been documenting all my experiences of domestic abuse. Even if I do nothing with it, I find it reassuring to write about incidents.
10th March 2021 at 9:34 am #122961DarcyParticipant
Hi my beautiful angel … red-flower,
Well done for posting and connecting on the forum.
I don’t have any experience in this area of family/disability abuse, I hope I’m understanding this correctly, however just wanted to acknowledge your post.
I would say that if you are in any situation where you feel less than yourself or that people are not treating you with love and respect this is a situation you need to start to think about changing… I hope that helps a little
Sending you love and support
10th March 2021 at 3:45 pm #122985RosemaryParticipant
Hello red flower I feel others who dont understand
Anxiety and depression would not understand how
You feel some people are only happy if they use mental health or Disability against you because they now where our weak spots are and it would affects us when they are being unkind or abusive
Towards you it’s not okay for anyone to treat you in this way I’ve had this my self so I do feel
For you it’s not easy to put things back of our minds to forget what they had said to upset you.
My advice would be is to try and reach out to people who would understand how you are feeling
Sometimes we have to be strong and not show the people that up set us that it’s not geting to you.
Try and Google Ted talks I find this helpful for my self. talk out to women aid if things are affecting your mental health. Not many people understand how your feeling unless they have been there self.haveing mental health dont mean your any different to anyone elese it just we need more support than others .
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