Years after abuse

[Racy]

I just wondered if anyone else felt the same. Its been years since I came put of abusive relationship, and I am just not interested in another partner. I thought i would be after a few years, but at (age removed by Moderator) realise that I never want to be with anyone. Is this normal after abuse.

[KIP.]

Hi there, it took me several years to come to terms with the abuse and the damage it has done. I had counselling and still am but I’m very wary of men. All men, all things masculine so I know I have more healing to do and I would eventually like to have a loving relationship when I’m ready. Perhaps you’re just not healed enough yet and I suppose it very much depends on why you don’t want a relationship. If it’s purely down to the abuse then I’d recommend counselling. Being in a relationship isn’t as important for me as I’ve discovered more about myself and I actually enjoy being single. It’s all about what you want from life. I hated the way society made me feel after the break up. Have you got yourself a Man yet? Someone asked me. Well no because I don’t want one I should have said. It’s okay to be single. To date yourself and treat yourself and put yourself first x

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