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They just don’t learn do they. It doesn’t take much does it to make you want to run. Would be nice if they could have the tables turned on them. I am a bit calmer now but at the time not so much. Stay safe ❤️

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My family remained friends with him. I haven’t made friends here as small places and I don’t want associated with him, so I go to work and I go home. Friends are a few hours drive away. I still get nightmares sometimes. I have anxiety through having PCOS too so it’s not helping. I tried counselling but got the same woman twice and just felt like I was wasting her time.

Thanks for responding.

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Been depressed for a month. Normally my mood would lift again but do far that has not happened.

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I tried speaking to someone when it all first started. I haven’t been able to talk to anyone and I am struggling now it’s been a month so just not knowing how to lift my mood up again. When I posted this I was on a night out and just felt like I wasnt really part of the group. I will look up that book, thanks. And thanks for all your comments.

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Hi, I agree with everything above. Please call for help. I hope you and your baby are okay. You need to get somewhere safe

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I think for me it was just pushing to see how much it would take to make him snap but mostly when I had been drinking. I would check his emails and his Facebook just to see what he was up to.

What have you done for example? He must be one of the good ones if he has stayed as it can’t be easy for either of you. I think for me I expected the constant fights and arguments and when they didn’t happen I was lost

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My past relationship was a lot like that, I think I pushed him to extremes on occasions and he would do things my ex used to do. We both drank a lot and I would lash out while drunk and not remember a thing I said or did and in the morning regret my actions while drunk but it fell into a bad routine. He put up with a lot. I still have issues but they are not so bad now I think it just takes time. You are bound to have issues after that amount of time. It does get better though honestly

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I also agree with KIP. Take your friend up on her offer and stay safe.

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Well done standing up for yourself 🙂 sounds like you have been through a lot with you ex. I hhope you get some time to yourself and he leaves you alone. Don’t expect him to take responsibility. I think it takes a lot for a guy to look in the mirror and realise they are the problem.

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My ex moved on too after making his death threats etc he moved to a new town not far away and got re married and had kids. I guess I always hoped he would remain single and miserable, life he deserved kinda of thing. Karma really didn’t do anything. Sorry for you and your situation but the guy moving on is the best thing and although its a friend of a friend they really won’t listen to a word you have to say as he will have his own sob story, it all being your fault which it is not in any way shape or form.

I hope you find happiness in a new life free of controlling factors.

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Thanks everyone, given me a few things to think about before i make my mind up. Thing is the person that gave me the information was the family member so i feel like i am not escaping the situation and hearing about it brings up bad memories. Anyway thanks again 🙂

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