Baba2020

[Baba2020]

Probably should of explained… He keeps coming bk and im too weak to say no. And he hasnt made direct tbreats but was on about hurting people in general cus hes angry and i was scared. And also said gonna send family round to the house

[Baba2020]

Yes. Hes started the begging and crying now and he dies have a key still. So will call tomorroe and get some advice. I feel like a massivebweight has been lifted and its like we can all breathe again. Thank u fir your advice

[Baba2020]

I am so glad i asked. I did take the kids somewhere safe. I knew it was the right decision. He got drunk was verbally abusive in texts and my neighbour saw she saw him struggling to walk drunk. Wgilst we were out he packed his stuff and has left

[Baba2020]

Thanks for your reply. My support worker has referred me to counselling and it was the lady there that told me to use this forum. I’m to worried to tell support worker about my husbands alcohol problems incase she refers us to social services. So I wonderhow I might get on the freedom programme? X

[Baba2020]

Thank u for taking time to reply. As the day has gone on its now my fault if I was a better wife he wouldn’t need to drink. I make his life stressful so he has to get drunk because I make him so miserable. He won’t leave the house. I feel so ashamed and embarressed

[Baba2020]

Thank u so much forthe reply. I feel like I’m going mad. I question my own sanity. This is getting worse. He gets drunk days he can’t remember. Last time he verbally abused for about (detail removed by moderator) hours. Calling fat ugly no one else would want me. The usual. And I still feel broken from that I’ve had to quit my job as I couldn’t stand the pressure and atmosphere because he thinks I’m having affairs with anyone and everyone. But then I feel like I’m being dramatic because he doesn’t hit me. But I am scared of him because he goes really really quiet and that frightens me.

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