Thank you so much for your response . Just to let this out finally and have someone respond has been very emotional. Within (detail removed by Moderator) we have moved back to our home city from (detail removed by Moderator) and bought a house together . His dad who is a wealthy man put a substantial amount towards the house so we only had to take out a small mortgage out. So this has been a continual stick to beat me with of course in his eyes this is his house because of the money his dad has put in . I don’t want anything out of the house I’m willing to walk away with nothing and start again but rents don’t look cheap when you need space for 3 kids . I feel like if I don’t get away soon I won’t survive mentally for much longer. I’ve confided in my sister and she has been very supportive . I feel like I’m drowning and can’t breathe from frustration . Xx