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Hi SunshineRainFlower, I know what u mean, my ex was emotionally, physically and menatally abusive but i still mainly see him as a nice guy, he had his good points and we had loads of really good days out, when we first split up I just wanted to talk to him all the time and be friends but as time has gone on he does things that remind me of who he really is, it’s easy to see them as 2 different people but u deserve one good person rather than not knowing which personality u r going to come home to, I have filled my time by contacting people I have lost touch with, walking, and planning things for me and my children, we always have lots of fun doing free things, taking care of you will help move past those feelings

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I have been reading loads on splitting up and dealing with all of this which has really helped, I have so much planned, going to London in the Christmas holidays and have 2 holiday planned next year, my best revenge is having nothing to do with him and having a good life, I do worry though that he will take out his frustrations on his next girlfriend as she already wants a baby with him and he is broody. I hope you are doing well now that you have your ex away from you x

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Thanks kip, it has been hard as I don’t want my kids to have anymore abuse and fear in their lives, they are already worried that they get angry and will turn out like their dad, he sees them twice a week so I can go to kickboxing, and I think I will limit his weekend time, I have made a lot of effort to shelter the kids from this but I feel having them around his new girlfriend is cruel as they are not ready, I’m just glad I would not let him break my spirit so that I can eventually be really happy

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