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    • #95857
      Crazylady19
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      Hi yes I never even thought of doing that Escapee!! My head is all over the place sometimes that I can’t see the obvious that’s right in front of me thank you so much, both of you I really appreciate your messages I something to work with here 🙂

    • #95383
      Crazylady19
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      Hi kip thanks for getting back to me. I’ve been trying to connect to an advisor on the live chat on here as it’s difficult for me to make any phone calls as I don’t get any time alone. I wasn’t aware that there was local women’s aid places I’ll have a look and see if I can find it thank you. I really didn’t want to have to go down the refugee road due to me being disabled but the way things are right now I don’t have a choice unfortunately.

    • #93333
      Crazylady19
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      Hi Nutshake I hope you & your boy are doing ok lovely. I’ve been reading through all the comments as I’m needing to do this myself as parting the marriage in a normal way is not going to happen with my however I don’t have children so it’s easier for me. But I don’t have any money whatsoever and all my benefits are joint and even my other benefits goes into her account so I literally have nothing or no one to help and this is where I’m stuck. Only a handful of times has it ever been physical abuse with me so I understand where you are coming from. Please gain as much strength as you can and run darling with your son you deserve better we all do and that’s something I’m starting to realise xxx

    • #93050
      Crazylady19
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      Hi fizzylem thank you for replying to me. It might sound silly but it wasn’t until about 6 months ago that I realised what type of relationship I was in, before this I wanted to fix things I would have walked to the ends of the earth for her but your right because of everything that’s going on I don’t really want to now. Don’t get me wrong I’ve been married for (removed by moderator) and together for over (removed by moderator) years and when I look back even at the beginning all of the signs where there I think I just chose to ignore them and I feel so stupid and angry at myself. Slowly I was pulled away from all my friends and family, the finances got controlled I don’t get any money of my own. In the past when I’ve questioned things there’s been that much arguing that I just stopped questioning and started falling for all the lies and BS the gaslighting is unreal and she gets other family members involved in it, she is such a good actress it makes me feel sick. I think I’m scared to tell anyone about any of this as no one would believe a word I would say. It’s hard for me to try and write everything on here as I don’t get time alone or she is over my shoulder she hates me being on my phone I’m sick to death of being accused of sleeping with other people. As for her doing this to herself next to me what the hell am I supposed to do about it as I’m not putting up with this or am I wrong for thinking like that?? I feel so alone she knows I have no one to talk to. I feel like she’s pushing me to see how far she can get I just don’t know.

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