I have been married to a man who was well behaved earlier and his family looked very understanding. But after marriage the very first week all showed their true colors. I noticed that my mother in law was a covert narcissist who was very possessive about her son and he was totally under her control and couldn’t go against her even if she is wrong. She tried to hurt him only as months passed as she was done with me since she wanted to punish him for marrying I guess and not rejecting to be her slave forever. My life became hell due to both mother and the son. I then read about (link removed by Moderator) signs of mother son enmeshment
Trust me by reading more and more about the patterns of what’s happening me and him, I got the dare to emotionally cut him off to say the harsh facts that he hates to hear. Just wanted to help him once before letting him go for what he has done to me and my family. Somewhere events which kept happening helped him to see the reality and bring change in himself which was difficult. I am still healing from my trauma. I am staying separate from him but when he changes I would sure go for the second chance.