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Hi herindoors. Thanks for the reply. In my view he’s intimidating me into shutting up and being incoherent because he can. He knows what he did to me so he knows how bad it is, he also took great interest in my only other abusive relationship. He wanted to know every detail and now he’s using that to. I can’t believe this snake managed to convince me so I should t be surprised everyone else is falling for it, it’s time I stood up for myself

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Silky you aren’t paranoid, none of us are. Whatever you think about him will be right. They push buttons for the exact response they want. For some reason anger translates to them as winning and feelings for them. I hope you are ok. An thank you Lisa. I have spoken to womens aid but my local one is a long way to get to so I’m going after the break. I’ve asked social services for help twice now and the help I’ve had has been really bad and really accusing, I feel like they are as bad as he is now

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Do not give him anything, my ex’s brother demanded doctors details, then my ex apparently rang them and told them all about me. I haven’t spoken to the doctors yet but I’d give him nothing. No good will come from it. Hope that helps xx

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My first Christmas I didn’t think I’d survive. I remember thinking if I can just get through this one day, when it finally got here it wasn’t so bad. We didn’t buy presents. I flatly stated that no return gifts were an option for us. Yeah we lost the odd friend but most understood. You will be fine. You are doing really well xx

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Sorry its took me so long to reply. Ive been hiding I guess. Social services have decided its me, I’m in need of mental health treatment. They have forced me to go to my gp and tell him and now I have a psychological assessment. The fact he is now coming to the house weekly is of no relevance. The fact hes interfereing heavily with the assessment is fine. The fact social services have forced me to admit I need help is ok. Apparently it looks good for me that I self refer. In other words we are making you tell people youre mentally ill. I still have a recording of them trying to force this on me when I left him and moved. Police don’t help, apparently they see it as me too. My doctor wrote twice and said I was fine, so now I’m forced into self referral. Does anyone ever consider you will be fine if they remove the controlling abuser they are helping to set you up. He said hed take my daughter, /that hed have me mentally assessed. The first part has now happened. I feel so down and its my low mood that’s the issue apparently. They are giving my abuser power and then tell me I’m depressed. Ive gone no contact so he rang me!!! this is also ok. I try to report it to social services no one will take my call, the social worker has gone now. I have no idea whatshappening but hes quoting things ive said and fixing anything I said was wrong. This is the problem. they decided I am mentallyill not an abuse victim and they are making me follow it. The council seem to think they overrulemy doctorand that when your abuser/rapist is on your doorstep its wrong to be afraid and upset. They have systematically interfered with everything, even in court they were quoted and domestic abuse was ignored. How is this ok?

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