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      Galaxy6
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      Thank you for sharing! I thought I was the only one who had these imaginary conversations. I try so hard not to have them, because I want to forget him and the relationship and just move on. But I catch myself having these conversations in my head as if I would see him again. I think it’s because there’s a part of me that regrets not saying more, or doing more. I feel awful for not defending myself, but the other side understands why I couldn’t do that. I’m also annoyed that he gets to just live his life, I didn’t get all of my belongings back either that I’d also worked hard for, some sentimental gifts. It feels like them keeping it is them believing they still have some power, and the thought of that is horrible.

    • #138027
      Galaxy6
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      Hi Hawthorn,

      Thank you so so much for your response, it is honestly such a relief to hear someone else that has felt the way I do at the moment.

      I have had therapy in the past, and I’m considering getting some more, but struggling to find a place longer than 6 weeks.

      I guess today has just triggered so bad feelings of guilt and anxiety that I have been trying to bury. I’m not a bad person, and I consider myself a positive one, but all I can think of is how much I hate him, and how much I wish I could turn back time and report it. But it’s knowing the consequences if I had done that. It’s been a really hard day. But your words have definitely helped, and I will try to be kinder to myself and seek some more help. Your words really are reassuring!

      Thank you again,

      Lots of love xx

    • #138026
      Galaxy6
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      Hi Darcy,

      Thank you so much for responding, and for your kind words, it’s soothing to know I’m not the only one.

      I’m trying to be kind to myself, today I just feel very overwhelmed with guilt and anger.

      Thank you so much again, I will try to be kinder to myself.

      Lots of love xx

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