Hi kip, I have room at mine and I’ve told them they can be with me whenever they want. They are teenage girls, unfortunately they feel they have to stay and look after their dad, I’ve told them he’s not there responsibility which they get quite angry about, saying he has no one else. I’m using a solicitor as I had to to get the NMO and she has written him telling him not To use the children, but he listens to no one.. I know he will break the order and I will be forced to call the police which the children don’t want me to do and ultimately I don’t want to either… he just won’t accept it and I don’t think he ever will. Sorry to hear about your lack of contact with your son, I hope that changes long term. It feels like we have to be punished forever… xx