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    • #49704
      Inneedofsomepeace
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      (detail removed by Moderator) order say only contact through as or solicitor for sole purpose of arranging contact with the children which he hasn’t done so how can this page not be against the order

    • #49703
      Inneedofsomepeace
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      I spoke to the solicitor about going to family court to get no contact for the children. But she advised it would open the door for him to apply for contact and that he would probably get some. The police and wa have always said to just not allow him to have contact and to let him go through court if he wants it. Too date he hasn’t bothered. Does the length of time since contact have an impact? He only has this bloody fb page and when police have asked him he says it’s for when they’re older. He always claims parental ailianation yet he has never tried. Although i would fight tooth and nail. 1 never wants to see him and freaks out if she thinks he knows where she is other recently diagnosed asd and doesn’t know who he is

    • #49700
      Inneedofsomepeace
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      Thanks kip that sounds like a great idea. I didn’t know that could be done. But how much would it cost I can’t afford legal costs at the minute

    • #49695
      Inneedofsomepeace
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      But is it illegal to just threaten it? I don’t know if he has done it? It could just be words?

    • #49692
      Inneedofsomepeace
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      Thank you. Every time I call the police all I get is he hasn’t breached his (detail removed by Moderator) order. They’re not interested. I scream shot everything in case he ever tries to go for contact as he will ofton say these things post them for a few hrs for people to see and then remove them.

      I am lost I thought about the revenge porn thing but have no proof he has actually done it. I have informed the child abuse team. But they’re running a go slow and don’t seem that bothered

    • #44568
      Inneedofsomepeace
      Participant

      Thanks lisa

      I am really hoping we don’t have to go back into another refuge. But sadly i know it may end up being my only option

    • #44552
      Inneedofsomepeace
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      Thank you all. I already have a lockable letter box as he threatened arson when i left. I already have someone from the police and fire brigade coming out in a couple of weeks to see if there is anything else they can do.

      They wouldn’t even do anything about causing fear and alarm. I do have to say the police officer did sit trying to think of ways but didn’t get anywhere.

      I have a worker from wa who is technically a navigator now. But when shes in work next week she is going to speak to a medium risk idva who i know from the freedom programme to see if she’ll take me on and fight my case. As we have got nowhere with the the high risk idvas.

      My childrens school have photos of him so they recognise him.

      But (detail removed by moderator)yrs on I’m in a new relationship and he still has me a prisoner in my own home.

    • #44153
      Inneedofsomepeace
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      They wont do anything. And couldn’t even find the updated restraing order on there system

    • #44098
      Inneedofsomepeace
      Participant

      They got called to an emergency will come out this afternoon as i have appointments this morning. But had he turned up they would have attended straight away! Is it only me that realises if they’d come on blue lights it would still give him time. Why can’t they understand how dangerous these men are.

    • #44094
      Inneedofsomepeace
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      The police never turned up. 😭 but at least neither did my ex

    • #44071
      Inneedofsomepeace
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      If they turn up. I need to sleep but i have lost all sense of logic or ratioal thinking. I’m convinced he’s hiding somewhere waiting for it to be dark. I keep trying to reasurre myself it could have been anyone she saw that looked a little like him but she was so distraught

    • #38312
      Inneedofsomepeace
      Participant

      I don’t know how to handle this it’s killing me a feel like my heart has been shattered

    • #38280
      Inneedofsomepeace
      Participant

      We are waiting for the police (detail removed by Moderator), He hasn’t had any contact since we left thank god.

    • #31592
      Inneedofsomepeace
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      Thank you kip

    • #31534
      Inneedofsomepeace
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      Thank you for your support. I so much appreciate it. I have had non from anywhere else.

      So can i ask them to look again at the file? And who would i ask

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