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ALL the above
Well done you give us all hope
Take care xx

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Thank you to all xx stay safe xx

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Thank you SO much Hereforhelp
I have taken your advice and despite living together have gone no contact,hopfully no contact will stop the accusations that I am the abuser.
just (detail removed by Moderator) has been (detail removed by Moderator) again so as to blame me for the bruises !!!!
Thank you once again, hope all is well for you
Take care, stay safe xx

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Thank you SO much xx
We are still together, living in the same house, I’m in one room “guarding the paperwork”
I have broken myself trying to sort all this out for many many years !!!!
I will speak to CAB when I get the chance ?
Thank you, stay safe xxx

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Thank you SO much xx

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Same here.I’m so sorry for all you are having to go through !!!
Stay strong xx

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Thank you SO much ladies
I have decided to not talk to him at all now, that way I cant possibly be accused of anything !!!
Stay safe xxx

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This is exactly what they are like
Mine says its all me too, refuses to except responsibility for ANYTHING and will NEVER help anyone unless he gains from it !!!
He will twist every situation to his benefit, even if it means being horrible to our grown up child, he is a vile selfish person.
I have ALWAYS been the “perfect wife” its NEVER enough for him.
Outside he is charming and chatty, yet behind closed doors he ignores, throws things,shouts,and generally makes us feel terrified to talk about anything, always sulking.grumpy,banging about etc !!!
I have managed through terrible ill health to gain the strength to talk on here.
keep going,stay strong,and most of all stay safe xxx

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Same here !!!!
He does this all the time
One minute putting out the washing, the next hitting me around the head and twisting my arm !!!!
I am now taking photos, keeping a diary, and clothes that have been ripped or have blood on.
He will NEVER except blame for ANYTHING, its ALWAYS somebody else’s fault(usually mine)
Now refusing to help me pay debts including one to a close family member, its SO SO hard to cope with, I live in one room, do my fair share of chores, its never enough for him !!!
His multiple marriages now make me see, he is a cruel manipulative monster
So yes this is what they are like, make us feel as bad as possible, then do something nice(until the next time)
Take care, stay strong xxx

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Tobfree and Anonymous
I could have written this post myself
My H is exactly the same, charming and supportive at first, turns out he is a two faced monster !!!!
I too have fibromyalgia, caused by all the stress and trauma, plus other physical illnesses and a nervous breakdown, he even pushed me around in the hospital (detail removed by moderator) !!! charming to to the doctors, vile to me.
he will NEVER EVER take responsibility for ANYTHING !!!!!!
I have managed to free myself in my mind, the abuse continues, and the silent treatment is ALL part of that abuse, I have given everything I have over the years, its NEVER enough for them
Take care ladies xoxoxoxo

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ME TOO xxxxxx
I talk to my pets ALL the time xx
They dont judge or get moody, they just love and want to cuddle(with no consequences)
I have found since removing my head from him(we live together)that the animals come to me more and are far more relaxed xx
Keep talking to them its fine, and it brings so much to a sad dangerous situation
They love it too xoxoxoxo
Take care ladies and all the pets that love us xoxoxoxoxo

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EXACTLY what put he kettle on said.
They love to confuse, and will NEVER take the responsibility
Remember who made you feel so sad and lonely !!!
Take care xxx

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PLEASE PLEASE get some help
it not you its him, this is what abusers do, and it gets worse the weaker we get, try to remove him from your head at least.
Speak to your GP,or anyone you can trust, we are ALL here for you xxx
In the meanwhile, keep a diary, take photos of anything you can (detail removed by Moderator) etc
They are so vile, and he does NOT deserve you AT ALL !!!!
Take care xxx

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DISGUSTING behaviour !!!!!!!
PLEASE take all the advice from these ladies, he doesn’t deserve you or the children.
Keep in touch and talk to Lisa one to one, she is amazing xxx
Stay safe and your little ones too
Could you family help ? they will be glad you have reached out to them
Love and support from an older lady with a grown up daughter xxx

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Thank you SO much Lisa
I am having to be VERY careful who I contact as he checks my laptop, I am also having to “Guard” the household paperwork as he keeps threatening to take all the money we use for bills, and to scrap my car as it currently needs repairs
I am getting stronger every day, long road to travel with my current health problems
I will keep ALL your advice in mind
Thank you once again, it means the world to know you are all there xxx

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