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    • #40154
      Littlemouse
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      Thank you ladies for all ur advice..I do t know what to do! All I know is this has to stop but I don’t.ha e the strength or in a.financial position to leave. I ha e no money or car to leave. I’m so confused what to do for the best. Where do I start? What of my.belongings? My.home ive worked so hard for ! Someone help me decide what to do. I must come across so week compared to u ladies. I have a problem leaving the house lately..but now have a problem trying to.find the courage to leave. Hugs to u all. Little Mouse x

    • #40151
      Littlemouse
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      Thank you ladies for all ur advice..I do t know what to do! All I know is this has to stop but I don’t.ha e the strength or in a.financial position to leave. I ha e no money or car to leave. I’m so confused what to do for the best. Where do I start? What of my.belongings? My.home ive worked so hard for ! Someone help me decide what to do. I must come across so week compared to u ladies. I have a problem leaving the house lately..but now have a problem trying to.find the courage to leave. Hugs to u all. Little Mouse x

    • #40098
      Littlemouse
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      By the way I’m a survivor of a serious rape and battery assault so feeling lower than low.

    • #40097
      Littlemouse
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      Hi all,my son drinks and takes drugs..he then verbally abused me if I say anything to him. He’s paranoid as he uses class A (cocaine) and class B (weed) He has moved his girlfriend in without asking me and she does as he says. The girlfriend doesn’t drink as often as him but has no consideration or respect for me or my home. Eg. I told them not to smoke in the house..neither of them listen my house stinks of weed. Even when my son went out I went into the bedroom to find her sitting on the bed smoking a joint. So quite clearly she is taking me for a joke and not respecting my rules for my home. She wouldn’t dare smoke in her mums house so why do it to me. I hate myself so much already and more and more each day! I have no support my friends and family have deserted me so I’m an easy target. I often think about suicide as it seems the only way out. I have nothing good in my life or anything to look forward to in the future. I have (detail removed by moderator) grandkids who I don’t see mainly because they’re not allowed to come to my house. I have lost everything because of my son and at my wit’s end. He’s getting worse by the day I can’t cope. I told him to leaves many times but he don’t listen. I told the girlfriend she’s not to stay here but she don’t listen I am in a corner trapped inside this prison cell I call my bedroom pulling my hair out. I’m scared to leave my home as he will trash it and have all his drunken friends in the house as he does now. My (detail removed by moderator) and it was the most loneliest time of my life! Waiting scared all day not knowing what to expect when he returned home. I told him and his girlfriend not to return to the house but they never listened. Please help me move forward with this scary situation. Hugs to all u brave ladles out there I need the help and courage to be a survivor. From a scared mouse! x

    • #40095
      Littlemouse
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      Hi all,your so very brave for reporting it..I wish I could find the courage to do the same. Unfortunately the abuser is my son!! He’s not physically abused me its mental torture every day. He uses alcohol and drugs on a regular basis which makes him more abusive,controlling and a bully. I am so scared of him I live in .y bedroom like a prisoner
      It’s unbearable,i’m quickly losing the will to live. I have lost most of my friends lost family and have no support around me. Please help me what to do! I am at my wit’s end and don’t even know if i’m talking to the right people. If i’m not turn I’m sorry for burdening you with .y troubles. From a really scared and confused little mouse x

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